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Wednesday, November 28, 2007

I ♥ Squadron 10:42 PM

"What do you know about relationship?"

That was the question I asked myself 4yrs ago. Then, I know it's a relationship with a guy, doing things together and be within the peers.

But that's a mindset of 4yrs ago .

Tho I don't have much experience in what they call courtship, I'm pretty much am not naive. Tho I may look and behave like one. Afterall, all they see in me is a 19yr old of the youngest amongst the family. Who couldn't care much but enjoying life as like a Theme Ride.

Any idea the many types of relationship a couple share? Look around an observe one day. When you're out shopping alone, or on the journey somewhere. Then maybe you'll understand.

I've seen loads of types of couples:

Serious - This couple doesn't talk much, doesn't smile much. If you see them eating at the restaurant especially, they start to be caution about their image, the way they seat and eat, the way they adress each other during course meals. The girl walks daintly and the guy tries to keep cool.

Distant - They are together, but they don't seem to have much fun together. Kay maybe they do coz if not, why are they together in the first place - but it all seems to disappear within time, maybe more of married couples with kids. The guy walks in front, leaving the woman at the back. Their tone of voices and the way they talk to each other. See them dining in and most of the time, their too busy with their other activities than each other.

Fun-loving - These fun-loving couple, are fun to look at, honestly. They have the chemistry that lingers in an unpredictable way, always smiling and laughing, oblivious to the people around them. See them eat together, the way they seat are at ease, no rules attached. Even eating seems to be a new game to them - trying to make a fool out of each other.

Romantic - One look at them, you can see that love is in the air! Always holding hands not letting go - afraid that the crowd might bring them in different ways. The guy will carry the girl's bag, and stroke her hair. The girl be truly pampered. When the dine, they tend to sit beside each other. They cuddle all the time, peck is common. The guy is the one leading the way all the time.

People around me are mused about my relationship.. Everytime. Some even thought that I'm chasing after his money/wealth - by the look of his bike. Some concluded that I've been brainwashed, given up on love, match-made.

The first question that comes out of them after aknowledging his age: "Has he ever been married?" NO. He has his reasons and NO he doesn't have any children.

I loathe the way people react when he says I'm 19. With their skanky thoughts and repellent looks.

We're the fun-loving couple. We're wary of the person we choose. I've been proven enough of younger guys - seen and heard, experience & been through. He has enough of been matched-made - doesn't want to end up marrying a girl for the sake of age. Commonality between us, why can't people see that?

We prefer something unique, individualism, no regulations, theme ride.

Just that sometimes, our only problem is - TIME.