Considering it's a big day event for you, one of it in your life. Thus, making it special, perfect and real beauty it's what everyone would want to have in mind. Making the dream wedding come true.
Yes, mine I've yet to think of. Like what I've told Shnookie about my plan for a wedding. Just legal registry with ROM, a Tok Kadi, a mini celebration among the closest relatives and friends and gubahan.
But he insist that we should have a proper one, like many couples do. To make it memorable and once a lifetime experience, and respecting our parents. Which parents doesn't want to see a big celebration, see the child up in the pelamin and inform the relatives and friends of how proud they are to marry off their child? I want to see that happen to my kids if you were to ask me :)
There's pros and cons to it. Pros I've stated it all, cons - Costs money. But then again, that's where your budget should be set. After thinking of it, maybe yea, I'll hold a real celebration. But that means - saving up least $15k. To cover all the expenses, the deco for both room and the void deck / CC, the Mak Andam, the cameraman & videoman, the gubahan, the cook and so forth.
Maybe having a grand wedding it's my deep lil secret, but I don't expect much of it now. Insy'Allah, ada rezki lebih, I'll make mine a grand one, make my parents proud that whatever education that they gave me gives me a good life.
Of course before nikha, comes the solemization - engagement. Shammy's been asking me about it, but I'm still in deep thoughts of it. Deeps thoughts of whether I'm ready for the serious knot. Not the man I'm having doubt of, just doubt with myself.
Well anyway, I'm pretty much am very, very, very excited to it all of a sudden. Maybe be not so sudden. I've been looking at wedding photos, and came across this company, rather lady Wannie from Gubahan Cinta, of all her creations and artistic gubahan. She does her creation with full heart and passion, with professionalism, with creativity and artistic ideas. I must say, the minute I see all the gubahan she's done for, I've fallen in deep love with her work. I'm so considering to support her, furthermore, she's anak melayu - infact, I've mailed her some queries. Hehehe. I know it's too soon, but never too early to plan right?
My personal favourites: Black and white theme, Black and Orange theme, Sangkar Burung Theme, Gold and Brown Theme, Black and Red theme this one I really love it loads, Black and Gold theme.
Or maybe mine, I'll give it the Lord of The Rings theme. Dash of gold, cream, white and silver. Hehehe. Well, shall start thinking of it now!
See, I'm so much excited - now, what shall be the gubahan items?